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Poem: the blessing of ordinary  

if i should happen in quite 
some ordinary way 
to remain 
sustain or 
simply maintain 
my existence 
i would count myself 
among the extraordinary 
 
if I should happen in quite 
some ordinary way 
to breathe 
consistently 
deeply 
repeatedly 
without thought 
difficulty or obstruction 
 
if i’m able to exist… like air 
then certainly i’d number 
among the extraordinary 
 
we’re conditioned for selfishness 
immediate self-gratification 
taught to despise emotion 
ignore empathy 
discount sympathy 
without understanding practicality 
taught to live in the moment 
for ourselves 
for what feels good 
we’re told self-focus 
makes us extraordinary yet 
such flings us like a wisp of wind 
 
appreciation of the ordinary 
exposes abundant blessings 
allowing for extraordinary 
insights in a world where 
we’re expected to accept  
what’s given to us 
done to us 
told to us 
shown to us 
where we’re not expected 
to think for ourselves 
of others or beyond  
what we see, feel, want, or need 
 
however, having learned to 
grow through vulnerability 
navigate darkness and greyness 
unlearn toxicity 
confront abusers and their enablers 
having learned to love myself 
embrace and accept my wholeness 
reenforce my strengths 
confidence and faith 
basic life elements 
uncommon to many 
yet necessities for wellness 
it’s clear i’ve been favored 
 
if I live to remember  
a dream 
loves embrace 
happiness’ pursuit 
then the ordinary has  
become a path to the divine 
 
so many years of yearning 
for extraordinary happenings 
only to discover blessings  
in the ordinary course of days 
 
Asé